Category: Blogging

  • Someone, the Champlain Towers South

    Someone, the Champlain Towers South

    With the tragedy in Surfside, I could not stop thinking of the word “someone.” So many someones who were lost. I thought of how these people were doing normal things all day long that day and as I read the tributes to those who have been discovered and are still missing, I pooled the things that were said about these dear people to write this essay. 

    On the day before the building came crashing down with hell’s fury in the deep of night, it was a day like any other–a day someone did what someone does when mercifully unaware that someone’s end is near.

    Someone talked to friends. Cassie Billedeau-Stratton talked to her husband from the fourth floor. Michael Altman talked to his son. Anastasia Gromova talked to her mother. “I love you,” she told her. Someone talked to a brother, a sister, an uncle the day before the building came crashing down. 

    Someone watched the sunset on the watery horizon and sighed a prayer to God. Magaly Elena Delgado gazed at the ocean she had dreamed of living near, breathing in its salty air for the last time. 

    Someone played cards. Someone shopped online. Someone finished a book while someone else started one. Someone wrote a letter. 

    Someone read the Torah. Someone read the Bible. Someone read the Koran. Hilda Noriega clutched the Rosary as the building came crashing down.

    Someone cooked Ropa Vieja, someone ate Gallo Pinto, and someone swallowed the last spoonful of Sopa Paraguaya. Someone fed their children Dulce de Leche and someone braided an exquisite Challah loaf as she had so many times before. 

    A world of smells wafted from kitchens the day before the building came crashing down.  

    Someone was the world to her family. 

    Someone helped a neighbor. Someone said good morning and someone said good night. Antonio and Gladys Lozano had dinner with their son and kissed him goodbye, not knowing it would be their last before the building came crashing down.

    Someone teased his wife. Someone argued. Someone made up. Someone hugged his loved ones tightly. Someone made love. 

    Someone paid bills while someone fried an egg. Someone folded laundry. Someone shined the windows that would shatter into a million pieces when the building came crashing down.

    Someone waited for test results. Someone hoped for a miracle. Ilan Naibryf and Deborah Berezdivin attended a friend’s funeral the day before the building came crashing down. 

    Someone watched her wedding video. Ruslan Manashirov and Nicole Doran-Manashirov wrote thank you notes that would never be sent. Gladys and Antonio Lozano planned their 59th anniversary party. Someone longed for her late husband the day before the building came crashing down.

    Someone beamed with pride because of her children, her grandchildren, her great-grandchildren. Judy Spiegel ordered a dress for her granddaughter while someone looked forward to his first grandchild. 

    Someone rocked a baby, inhaling the sweet smell of freshly washed hair. Aishani Gia Patel crawled across a solid floor that would disappear beneath her. Her parents chose a name for their unborn baby for a lifetime that was not to be. Someone kissed a child goodnight the day before the building came crashing down.

    Now I lay me down to sleep, I pray the Lord my soul to keep; If I should die before I ‘wake, I pray the Lord my soul to take.

    Someone slept soundly. Someone tossed and turned. 

    Someone heard creaking noises the day before the building came crashing down.

    Someone felt the building sway.

    Someone saw a crack opening up.

    Someone felt the wind.

    Someone–

      

    Sources: https://www.local10.com/news/local/2021/06/28/stories-of-surfside-condo-victims-identified-life-of-the-party/

    https://www.cnn.com/2021/06/24/us/miami-building-collapse-victims-missing/index.html

    https://abcnews.go.com/US/victims-surfside-condo-collapse/story?id=78517075 

  • Thank You, 2020, for These Gifts

    Thank You, 2020, for These Gifts

    We’ve turned the calendar page on 2020. And like so many others, I bid it farewell with a good riddance. 2020 was HARD! It was like sandpaper on our souls. But before I lay 2020 to rest, I want to say thank you for the things you’ve given me. With gratitude, I’ve learned in new ways that…

    We are all connected. All over the world, in every corner, our destinies and health and well-being are interlaced. We have feared, hoped, and grieved as one.

    We need each other. It doesn’t matter where we work, who we are, what we own–we all are touched by the events of 2020. And we all need each other to choose what’s best. Even if we don’t know each other, our actions can help or hurt one another.

    We all matter. The grocery worker. The delivery person. The garbage collector. We are essential and we are dependent on one another.

    2020 has given us many gifts…

    The gift of heroism. What it means to be a hero. Those who show up day after day in the face of a pandemic.

    The gift of justice. To stand side by side in protest and demand a better way.

    The gift of agency. To brave elements and toxicity to vote–to make our voice matter.

    The gift of sacrifice. To make sacrifices for the good of others. To wear a mask. To stay home. To forego events.

    The gift of humility. To acknowledge there’s much I do not know. To trust our leaders. Our scientists. To cry out to God for healing and mercy and justice.

    The gift of compassion. For those who are afraid and vulnerable. For those who are sick and suffering. For those who are lonely. For the way this pandemic has broken all of us–all of us–in some way. Emotionally. Mentally. Physically. Financially. Socially. Each of us is off kilter. And we have compassion for one another.

    The gift of wisdom. To see beyond the surface of who people are. For character to be revealed in our leaders–good or bad.

    The gift of clarity. To see what really matters.

    The gift of gratitude and appreciation. For small and great things. For miraculous vaccines and for staples from the store. For HOME!

    The gift of prayerfulness. To come to God regularly for the needs of others. Because He alone can mend what is broken.

    The gift of patience. My needs are not greater than others. We wait. We don’t push or demand.

    With gratitude: Farewell 2020, but thank you, by the grace of God, for the gifts you have given me in a year when so much was taken.

  • Without Darkness, We Cannot See the Light

    Without Darkness, We Cannot See the Light

    Today I have spent my morning time with God reviewing recent journal entries. God has been speaking to me about the role of darkness; without it, we cannot see the light. We cannot appreciate the light.

    With the dark times of the coronavirus bringing illness, death, and fear… I thought I’d share some of my thoughts.

    Light
    Needs
    Darkness

    Light cannot shine
    Unless
    Darkness hides.

    Light

    Light

    Light

    Sits on darkness’ shoulders.
    Pierces dark places
    Warms frigid caverns of

    Dark

    Dark

    Shadows

     

    Balance. Contrast. Dimension. Light has less impact without shadows.

    I asked God, “What am I supposed to learn from this, God?” 

    Life without struggle is flat and uninteresting. The absence of struggle brings flaccidness to my muscles. My soul. My spirit.

    Every struggle and challenge makes me stronger. “What doesn’t kill me makes me stronger.”

    Beauty in nature depends on shadows.

    Life without shadows is flat.

    Today I embrace the struggles that add dimension and interest and strength to my life. 

    (This was written two months before our trip to Italy and subsequent quarantine when we returned.)

    Never doubt that God is preparing you for what’s coming. Never doubt that God is with you in the darkness. He shines the light to show us the way.

     “I am the light of the world. The person who follows me will never live in darkness. He will have the light that gives life.” John 8:12 (NIV)